Why Blame Parents?

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Our parents are not angels, they were same with us. They might be wrong and have many weaknesses. When it is in the parents, do not complain much less disseminated. Fix and straighten.

When the parents are doubt with your choice, make it as a practice to negotiate and convincing others. not just blame and underestimate your parents' opinion. Perhaps your parents are doubt with your choice because your mindset, attitudes and behavior are not feasible to be trusted.

I believe, as long as you have a lot accomplishment, have strong leadership soul, accurate opinions, trusworthy when given job by parents, care of the family and other positive things, you will be much easier to conquer the hearts of your parents. It's really not nice if you demand you parents to agree woth your ideas and opinions while you yourself have not confident, independent and has not yet had a lot of work.

When your parents had a bad habit, then invite and make them busy with positive activities that your parents really like. people who have the time to do badness might be because they did not know much kindness way that has not been done. open the kindness door and accompanied them to busy in it.

If parents have bad mental attitude and character, frequently invited to talk privately. From heart to heart. it is your duty, not a duty of preacher, trainer, psychologist, sages and expert human empowerment. Do not too often invite them to their events. Let them go to the training seminars or such events like on consciousness themself. not pushed by you.

Do not disenchant you parents by other outsources. It is your job. maybe some of you have nothing to complain of "well I do not have the ability for it". if you already know that you do not have such ability, then learn if you are really willing to sacrifice for the sake of your parents.

Devotion to parents is also envidenced by your act to keep cover their weaknesses, straighten the wrongs and your willingness to frequently share stories only with them. Start now.

By jamilazzaini.com

5 Most Poor Billionaire

When we talk about a billionaire or the richest men in world, we will imagine how their lifestyle for sure and how they spend their money for pride or just show off their wealth.

But these 5 billionaires are precisely 'competing' to show their modesty. They do not ashamed nor ruined their dignity to show their simplicity though God give them richness. interestingly, they do it not because they want to look for sensation but based on some spesific reason which actually very normal and reasonable.

Here are they, the rich men who claim to be 'poor'.

1. Nicholas Berggruen

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A rich man with 20 billion dollars fortune in 2010. But it is not wealth that makes it famous. Nicholas is a billionaire who has no home. He decided to live his life naturally as it is. Even he decided to spend a lot of money to be donated as a social charity in various areas. For him, wealth is about what you give to the world not how much money you have.

2. Yu Youzen

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This woman is very unique. How could not, with income from several businesses that she has in China, this woman choose to become a street cleaner. Yes, she is Yu Youzhen, a woman from China who regularly wakes up at 3 am to instantly clean up the streets along 2 miles away. That 53 years old mother does that to teach her children to have work hard spirit without depending to her wealth. Though she has properties which value until $1.500.000, wow!

It seems that her unique lesson is success enough because her children are become a taxi driver and an employee.

3. Ingvar Kamprad

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Ingvar Kamprad, the founder of phenomenon Swedich furniture, IKEA has recorded many achievments thorough adfordable self-build furnitures. For Kamprad, how to save money is not only for his customers but also for himself.

There's a quote in among IKEA people, 'IKEA staffs don't drive fancy car nor luxury hotel'. That's also appply for its founder. Kamprad only use business class plane for abroad and for arround the town he rides bus or his 15 years old Volvo 240GL.

4. Mark Zuckerberg

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The CEO and founder of Facebook who has 15.4 billion USD still lives same way as he used to do. He admitted that he rides Acura TSX and change it to Volkswagen GTI valued 30.000 USD.

In 2011, he even bought a house for 7 million USD in Palo Alto, United State. He also very modest in attire, he oftenly seen only wears simple t-shirt and hoodie jacket.

5. Zong Qinghou

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He is a founder and CEO of Hangzhou Wahaha Group. Zong is a  very humble, focus and modest man. Zhong start his carrier as a soda and candy seller to students until now he is the richest man in mainland China and dominate soft drink as much as 15% market in China.

But Zhong doesn't look like as billionaire at all. He wears simple clothes, eats tofu and pickles for lunch with his staffs in canteen and only spends 20 dollar everyday. He rejects fancy food and prefer to eat simple meals. Even Zhong is very proud with his success that he has, he definitely nover forget with his origins.

A Wife is Angry to Her Husband

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Wife: why the hell you didn't tell from the first if you're as poor as this??

Husband: I've told you, dear. But you weren't hear and understand.

Wife: what have you said?

Husband: i said, you’re the only one that i have in the world. But you replied, ‘oh so sweet..’

Why Should I Pay?

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A pretty woman stayed overnight in five stars hotel. When she check out, she shocked seeing the hotel bill $700. She protest to the Hotel Manager.

Woman:

“I just slept one night but why should I pay $700? I want the details!”

Manager:

“The cost includes spa, pool, gym, tennis court, Wi-Fi etc.”

Woman:

“I didn’t use it at all, why should I pay?”

Manager:

“We provide it, why you didn’t use it?”

  

Smell fishy, that pretty woman won’t debate, she takes $100 out and put in on hotel manager’s table then said,

“I just want pay $100. The $600 rest is a one night makes love with me.”

The hotel manager stammer answered,

“I.. I don’t make love with you.”

Woman:

“I provide it, why you don’t use it?”

How to Control Anger

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How the brain processes emotions? The information captured by the senses we received and transferred into two channels, those are the emotions regulator (the amygdala) and the thinking part (the neocortex). Interestingly, the process of information to the amygdala takes faster than the process to the neocortex. When we feel a very strong emotion, the amygdala will soon take over our brain and take action to escape, fighting or sculpting. Consequently, the neocortex didn’t get work and we cannot access the information with rational. This process named ‘the amygdala piracy’ by Daniel Goleman. This is the reason why we often regret when we did some acts or took decision at our intense emotion.

Therefore, when we are in the condition that may trigs the intense emotions, then stop. Give time to our brain to think. One of the emotion management technique states to stop doing anything for 6 seconds to give enough time to make amygdala stop pirate our thinking brain.

The meaning of A Pencil

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First quality, a pencil reminds you if you can do great things in life. Just like a pencil when it’s writing, you should never forget that there’s a hand that is always guiding you to step in this life. We call it ‘the hand of God’, he will lead us according to his will.

Second quality, grandma sometimes stops and uses a sharpener to sharpen the pencil several times. This sharpener will definitely make the pencil suffer. But after it finish sharpened, the pencil will get the sharpness back. So you are, in this life you should dare to accept suffering and distress because they will make you a better person.

Third quality, the pencil always gives us the opportunity to use the eraser, to delete the wrong words. Therefore, fixing our fault in this life, is not a bad thing. It can help us to remain on the right path.

Fourth quality, the most important part of a pencil is not the outer but charcoal inside pencil. Therefore, always carefully and realize things in you.

Fifth quality, the pencil is always leaves marks or scratches. As you, you should be aware that whatever you do in this life will leave the impression.

Give Your Wife All She Needs

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Wife: Dear, newspaper please..

Husband: Ah, youu.. world already advanced as now. All digital already but you still read the news from newspaper. Here, use my iPad.

Then the wife use the iPad to strike a cockroach on the floor.

Husband: *fainted*

Don't Judge Book by Its Cover

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Once upon a day, an old man and a 25 year old girl are sitting in the train opposite with a man and a young lady. When the train is running the girl is very happy, like a child who thrills to ride train for the first time. “Dad dad.. Look! Those trees walked back toward us,” said the girl.

That phenomenon of course is a common thing when we are in vehicle. But that girl is very enthusiastic, acting like a child. “Dad dad, look!” She said while pointing the clouds, “The clouds are following us.” The old man is smiling look his daughter.

It’s different with the couple who sat in front of them. They both stared at the girl with a strange look. They think the girl acted strange.  25 years old but acts like a child. “Why you didn’t bring your daughter to the doctor?” Ask one of couple. She’s looking at her with a pity gaze. They think the young girl has abnormal behavior or abnormal psychological.

The old man smiled. “I have brought my daughter to the doctor, shortly after she was born. The doctor told me that she was blind”, said the old man, “Not long ago my daughter had eyes surgery and succeed. It is her first time see the world through her eyes.”

It’s easy for us to judge someone looks strange, stupid, impolite brash and other. But is it makes you better than them? Not really. Because everyone has their own life story. Sometimes they also had wound. It would be wise if you do not judge other without unknowing the story behind it.

Wrinkles

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Wrinkles around the eyes shows the line of happiness. This shows signs of happiness. This shows signs of openness heart to everyone. Vertical lines that there is delivered eyes showed the figure of the logical, hardworking and also critical. Wrinkles around the nose up to the mouth is a line of life goals. People who have a frown lines has vision and mission in their life.