How to Control Anger

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How the brain processes emotions? The information captured by the senses we received and transferred into two channels, those are the emotions regulator (the amygdala) and the thinking part (the neocortex). Interestingly, the process of information to the amygdala takes faster than the process to the neocortex. When we feel a very strong emotion, the amygdala will soon take over our brain and take action to escape, fighting or sculpting. Consequently, the neocortex didn’t get work and we cannot access the information with rational. This process named ‘the amygdala piracy’ by Daniel Goleman. This is the reason why we often regret when we did some acts or took decision at our intense emotion.

Therefore, when we are in the condition that may trigs the intense emotions, then stop. Give time to our brain to think. One of the emotion management technique states to stop doing anything for 6 seconds to give enough time to make amygdala stop pirate our thinking brain.

Wrinkles

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Wrinkles around the eyes shows the line of happiness. This shows signs of happiness. This shows signs of openness heart to everyone. Vertical lines that there is delivered eyes showed the figure of the logical, hardworking and also critical. Wrinkles around the nose up to the mouth is a line of life goals. People who have a frown lines has vision and mission in their life.

An Entrepreneur's Email

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An unemployment man is applying for the Office Boy position in Microsoft. The HR Manager interviewed him and tested him to clean the floor. “You hired. Give me your email address, I will send you the application form to be filled also your work start date”, said HR Manager.

That man replied, “But I don’t have computer even email”. “I’m sorry, if you don’t have email then you will never be hired here,” add HR Manager.

That man is hopeless and don’t know what to do. With only $10 left in pocket, he decided to go to supermarket and buy 10kg tomatoes. Then he sells those tomatoes from door to door. Less in 2 hours, all the tomatoes sold and he got his money double.

He repeated his sales until three times and go home with $60. He realized that he could survive by selling tomatoes and start selling tomatoes every day and come home late at night.

He got 3 times profit in a day and repeat day by day. In short time, he bought car, truck then has his own delivery vehicle.

5 years later, he became one of biggest food retailer in United States. He starts to plan his family future and decided to have life insurance.

He call insurance broker and choose protection plan. When in conversation, the broker asked him his email which will be used for insurance purposes.

He answered, “I don’t have email”. That broker shock and wondering, “You don’t have email but already successfully built the imperium company business. Can you imagine what could be happen if you have email?” That man thought for a moment then replied, “Yes. I would be an office boy in Microsoft!”

When one door closed, another door opens. But sometimes we see and regret the closed door too long so we couldn’t see the other door which is open. Never stop trying and do not give up because of a failure.

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Our Education System

Rise Above Humiliation

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When Abraham Lincoln (1809 – 1865) was a young lawyer, he often consulted with other lawyers on the case. One day, he sat in the waiting room to see a senior lawyer. But when it came time, the lawyer only sees Lincoln glance and shout, “What’s he doing here? Get rid of him! I’m not going to deal with a stiff monkey!” Lincoln pretended not to hear. Even though he knew it was deliberate insult. Although shy, he remained calm. Then when the trial took place, Lincoln ignored. But the lawyer who had insulted Lincoln so cruel, he can defend his client with brilliant. Handling of the case was made Lincoln fascinated. He said to himself, “His reason is very nice. The arguments were precise and very complete. Well organized and prepared! I’ll go home and really be keen to learn the law again.” Time flies..

Lincoln becomes president of United States in March 1861. Among the main critics, there is Edwin M. Stanton, a lawyer who once insulted and hurt Lincoln so deeply, but Lincoln lifted him in important positions as a Secretary of War. He never forgot that Stanton is a smart-witted lawyer, which is needed by country. When Lincoln died, Stanton said, “He is the pearl belonged to civilization.  

Only a person who has character and forgiving like Lincoln can rise and succeed in humiliation! So, keep the mood. Do not let other people’s bad attitude determines how we act. Select to continue to do well and learn to forgive. Make ‘junk’ as ‘fertilizer’ or ‘fuel’ for forward-both within the family, work or where we live.

The Characteristics of First Child

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First born child usually has great attention directed at them. There are two kinds of typical first-born child that is obedient and aggressive. The first child in the family can be one of two types and have distinctive characters:

• Often burdened with expectations or wishes of parents. The first child is very important for parents’ ego. That is why, the eldest encouraged to achieve a very high standard as parent representative.
• Tend to be depressed.
• Love being the center of attention. The optimal development of their personality is when they gained attention.
• Parents tend to be more concerned in educating first child.
• Usually first child is a high achiever (have desire to be achiever).
• When the younger was born, they had an honor place for the younger. Even so, when the center was distracted by their younger, they can be jealous and insecure.
• Likely to be given the responsibility of parents to look after their younger.
• Responsible and independent learning through daily activities.
• Reliable.
• Tend to be bound to the rules.
• Dominant, conservative and authoritarian,
• Having a sharp mind.
• More sensitive.
• Responsible, protect and care for others.
• Good organizer.
• Many first children get the top position as director or CEO. Not a bit first child who was suffering because they do not succeed.

The Characteristics of Middle Child

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Among the eldest and the youngest, the middle child is well known with their negotiation skill. Because the wedge position so they want to get the attention of the parents or others around them. The middle child is quite difficult to pin down but they tend to be the opposite of their eldest.

These are the characteristics of middle child:

• Tend to be more independent so they could build and form their own character. For example, their mother holds their youngest and their father hold their eldest, then they doesn't know what to rely on anyone. Eventually they became more independent.
• Because of neglect, the second or middle tend to have high motivation, could be in terms of achievement and socialization.
• Tend to be free of parental experience and independent.
• Clever to look the situation.
• Rules are applied more loosely. The mid child is allowed to do things certain generally with few restrictions.
• Adventurous. Like to socialized and live in groups.
• Free to express their unique personality.
• Tend to be more expressive. Ambition to surpass their eldest, especially when their age is close.
• Thought tend to oppose, the mid child is usually more adaptable.
• Flexible and love peace.
• Have artistic talent.
• Have social interest.
• Have high motivation.
• Tend to need of affection.
• Tend to feel unloved by parents than their eldest and youngest.
• Difficult to describe their personality.

Freedom Mind

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The inventor of modern toothbrush is an Englishman named William Addis. He wears bones that he was perforated into small pieces, then fills with fur and glued it into one. William became a millionaire after the idea was developed into a hairy nylon toothbrush and manufactured by the American Company named Du Pont in 1938.

Did you know that when William Addis find the concept of a toothbrush, he was languishing in jail? His body was in prison but his mind was not imprisoned. While many people, who are not in prison, often imprison his mind self. That jail forms into the words:

“No way”

“Never”

”Would not”

“Don’t want”

“Do not brave” and others “no” words, which is often a barrier us to evolve. The Creator gives us the potential to be developed, positively and as much as possible. So, do not allow any state to imprison our minds.

An Indian Rickshaw Man

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Whose hearts have not been touched to see a man pull a rickshaw on a hot day while carrying a baby? This is really happened in India. This man caring for his baby because his wife died after giving birth and no one is willing to take care of the baby.

This man’s name is Bablu Jatav, 38 years. He was blessed with a baby girl named Damini after married for 15 years with his wife, Shanti. Mr. Bablu said that he was very happy to be blessed a put but he kept a deep sadness because his wife died shortly after birth. “Shanti died shortly after giving birth at the hospital on September 20, 2014”, said Bablu. Since that, no one was willing to take care of my daughter, so I was looking after her, even when I pull a rickshaw,” he added.

Bablu is a daily rickshaw man in Bharatpur city. He did not have any brother or sister who can take care his baby, so the only way is taking care of his daughter while working. Bablu holds his baby with cloth wrapped around his neck. He was forced to do it, even in the middle of a very hot day. It is very worrying, especially for very young Damini. The heat of the sun and road conditions make it had to be rushed to hospital Jaipur some time ago. The baby suffered from septicemia, anemia and acute dehydration. Fortunately, the baby’s condition improved after treatment. The news quickly spread in India, so many offers of assistance received by Bablu. It is probable that the local Indian government is processing a way to help care for the baby. Hopefully the aids come soon, so this baby girl got better treatment.