Why Blame Parents?

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Our parents are not angels, they were same with us. They might be wrong and have many weaknesses. When it is in the parents, do not complain much less disseminated. Fix and straighten.

When the parents are doubt with your choice, make it as a practice to negotiate and convincing others. not just blame and underestimate your parents' opinion. Perhaps your parents are doubt with your choice because your mindset, attitudes and behavior are not feasible to be trusted.

I believe, as long as you have a lot accomplishment, have strong leadership soul, accurate opinions, trusworthy when given job by parents, care of the family and other positive things, you will be much easier to conquer the hearts of your parents. It's really not nice if you demand you parents to agree woth your ideas and opinions while you yourself have not confident, independent and has not yet had a lot of work.

When your parents had a bad habit, then invite and make them busy with positive activities that your parents really like. people who have the time to do badness might be because they did not know much kindness way that has not been done. open the kindness door and accompanied them to busy in it.

If parents have bad mental attitude and character, frequently invited to talk privately. From heart to heart. it is your duty, not a duty of preacher, trainer, psychologist, sages and expert human empowerment. Do not too often invite them to their events. Let them go to the training seminars or such events like on consciousness themself. not pushed by you.

Do not disenchant you parents by other outsources. It is your job. maybe some of you have nothing to complain of "well I do not have the ability for it". if you already know that you do not have such ability, then learn if you are really willing to sacrifice for the sake of your parents.

Devotion to parents is also envidenced by your act to keep cover their weaknesses, straighten the wrongs and your willingness to frequently share stories only with them. Start now.

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Mother Answers

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There was a boy who asked his mother, “Mom, my friend told me that his mother always let his own hand to bitten by a mosquito until filled with blood so the mosquito will not bite my friends’ hand. Would you do the same like his mom?” The mother laughed and answers frankly, “No. But I will repel the mosquito all night so it did not bite you and our family.” Hearing the answer, the boy smiled and went back to playing activities.

Not long after, the boy turned back to his mother. It turned out that he suddenly remembered something. “Mom, I’ve heard a tory that there was a mother who would not eat so her children can eat well. It she was you, what are you going to do?” the boy asked the almost same question. This time his mother replied with more assertive voice, “I will work hard so that we can all eat and were filled. So, you don’t have to be difficult to swallow because I saw your mother starve”.

The boy smile and then embrace her lovingly, “Thanks, Mom. I can always rely on you”. She rubbed her son’s hair and replied, “No, son! But I will educate you to be able to stand firmly on your own feet, so you will not fall down when I’m no longer on your side. Because I’m not going to always on your side.”

How many of parents who often to feel willing to sacrifice themselves for the sake of her children? Don’t we realize that such attitudes could blunt the child’s mentally braveness? So, it is wise to all parents to not only made themselves a resting-place for their children but also makes that backrest is no longer needed in the future. It is wise if the parents form their children to be independent as a person when the parents can no longer accompany the children in the world.