Why Blame Parents?

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Our parents are not angels, they were same with us. They might be wrong and have many weaknesses. When it is in the parents, do not complain much less disseminated. Fix and straighten.

When the parents are doubt with your choice, make it as a practice to negotiate and convincing others. not just blame and underestimate your parents' opinion. Perhaps your parents are doubt with your choice because your mindset, attitudes and behavior are not feasible to be trusted.

I believe, as long as you have a lot accomplishment, have strong leadership soul, accurate opinions, trusworthy when given job by parents, care of the family and other positive things, you will be much easier to conquer the hearts of your parents. It's really not nice if you demand you parents to agree woth your ideas and opinions while you yourself have not confident, independent and has not yet had a lot of work.

When your parents had a bad habit, then invite and make them busy with positive activities that your parents really like. people who have the time to do badness might be because they did not know much kindness way that has not been done. open the kindness door and accompanied them to busy in it.

If parents have bad mental attitude and character, frequently invited to talk privately. From heart to heart. it is your duty, not a duty of preacher, trainer, psychologist, sages and expert human empowerment. Do not too often invite them to their events. Let them go to the training seminars or such events like on consciousness themself. not pushed by you.

Do not disenchant you parents by other outsources. It is your job. maybe some of you have nothing to complain of "well I do not have the ability for it". if you already know that you do not have such ability, then learn if you are really willing to sacrifice for the sake of your parents.

Devotion to parents is also envidenced by your act to keep cover their weaknesses, straighten the wrongs and your willingness to frequently share stories only with them. Start now.

By jamilazzaini.com

The Conqueror

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Sir Edmund Hillary, the first conqueror of Everest in the Himalayas, was once asked by a reporter what is most feared by him for exploring the natural. He said that he did not fear the beast, a steep ravine, giant ice shelf or even the vast deserts and arid.

“Then what, sir?”. He replied, “A grain of sand tucked in between the toes”. Reporters were surprised, but Sir Edmund continued his words. “If grains of sand come in between the toes, it is often the beginning of a disaster. They could get into skin foot or infiltrate through the nail. Then the foot could get infection and rot. Unwittingly, legs could not be moved. Well, that’s a disaster for explorers, because they had to be stretchered”.

Sometimes a lot of great things we do not fear and we prefer to ignore things that seem trivial, but it can make a fatality in our life.