How to Control Anger

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How the brain processes emotions? The information captured by the senses we received and transferred into two channels, those are the emotions regulator (the amygdala) and the thinking part (the neocortex). Interestingly, the process of information to the amygdala takes faster than the process to the neocortex. When we feel a very strong emotion, the amygdala will soon take over our brain and take action to escape, fighting or sculpting. Consequently, the neocortex didn’t get work and we cannot access the information with rational. This process named ‘the amygdala piracy’ by Daniel Goleman. This is the reason why we often regret when we did some acts or took decision at our intense emotion.

Therefore, when we are in the condition that may trigs the intense emotions, then stop. Give time to our brain to think. One of the emotion management technique states to stop doing anything for 6 seconds to give enough time to make amygdala stop pirate our thinking brain.

The Characteristics of Single Child

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Single child can be referred to as the “most versatile”. Take the best and worst qualities of the first child, multiple it two or three times and you’ve just created a recipe for single child. Single child is not only could be a leader but they tend to be super perfectionist. Everything is black and white, it means, “Do it on my way or the wrong way.” Therefore, they tend to be a lot of criticism and not just a little selfish. Sometimes they can oppress people and do not care about others feeling.

Very likely, the single child typical is a list maker, very smart and growing rapidly in the logic. Single child tends to be very neat bur even some messy know where to find something amid. They are great activator: task oriented, organized remarkable, very thorough and completely unreliable. They like facts, ideas and detail and very comfortable with responsibility. Single child may be introverted. Though they like one-on-one interaction, they are impatient for small talk in the middle of group social events. They tend to be difficult to forgive and tend to be demanding. They hate to admit that they are wrong and are usually not easily accept criticism.

In special situation, single child can creates two different types of people. The first is restless child below the surface. Always brought up with strict plan regularly and very discipline even expected to act mature since the age of five, living joy in the midst of adults and often particularly get along with adult. These children are very quiet and cool on the surface but behind it they hate to be an adult who robbed of their childhood.

The Characteristics of the Twins

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Although each has siblings, twins usually grow into a different person. Generally, the first child born will have the proper character of older sister / brother who protects. While the born later will have character like younger sibling. Outside of their relationship, the twins will usually have problems with the stamp of their “twin” status. This could be a source of frustration when they grow up and look for their identity. So, teach the twins to look for their favorite passion or respectively. Although they will difficult to be separated and prefer to be with, try to approach one by one and notice what is their interest and skills individually. It is important for each child to build interest and individual personality and not mutually dependent.

The first twin resembles the first child:

• Aggressive
• Hard
• Speak out
• Stubborn
• Intolerance

The second twin resembles the middle child:

• Shy
• A quiet
• Loner
• Not opposing

The Characteristics of Last Child

The last child is often considered as a baby family and life as this role. Sometimes it is hard for last child to find a place in family, as the first and middle child has left footprints to follow and carve themselves into the family.

Characters that is common to the last child among other children:

• Classified as difficult as it had older sibling as models.
• Often feel inferior, as not as powerful as their older siblings.
• Often assisted in the care of people around, so they’re not too aware of their potential.
• Tend to be spoiled and love much devoted to them.
• More feel safe.
• Tend not mature and less responsible.
• Usually understand that they are special.
• Considered as a “baby” continuously.
• The rules that given to them is less strict.
• Only given small responsibility in the family.
• Less experience in learning responsibility makes the youngest avoid responsibility and commitment, especially when the parents treat them happily as a “baby”.
• More spontaneous and have a free spirit.
• Many comedians and hosts are a middle child or the youngest because they freely develop their unique personality.

How to Communicate with A Blood Type Person

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Do not talk with confrontational topics, for example, a controversial topic because they do not like to make a confrontation with you.

Use relatively polite words because they are very sensitive and sometimes conservative so if the words are not in accordance with their minimum standards of decency, it would be offensive to them.

If want to answer them, try to speak complete and meaningful because they are very perfect and do not really like the incomplete things.

Ask their views and opinions because they are very creative for this and listen carefully when they explain.

Do not exceed them when delivery something. That means, don’t make them they are surpassed in terms of intelligence and experience.

Respect them with praise as necessary because the excessive praise will make them doubt the sincerity of the praise.

In addition, the A blood type person like to talk about peaceful and cooperative topics. They do not like the topic related to others’ lunge or personalities which has no parameter explained. They are very sensitive which means every word that defies their common sense would become the benchmark them against people who want to communicate with. Be careful of A blood type person because they are actually extraordinary observer.

How to Communicate with B Blood Type Person

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Type B has a different character to those with A blood type. They are more practical, self-centered, creative, optimistic and free in thought. They also have a tendency to do things individually. Therefore in Japan, to form a strong team that initiated the motto of John C. Maxwell: Teamwork makes the dream work really become reality, the B blood type is usually less involved. For more details, these are the following style of the communication with B blood type person that can be used as a guideline:

Begin talks with cascading, do not jump to anywhere because they do not like the irregular things.

Do not start the conversation without end.

Use accurate data, not fiction.

If you’d like to corporate with them, make sure that they are willing.

Speak to their brain, not their heart. Use more rational than social facts. Do not speech hasty.

B blood type person rather listen to a detailed description and consecutively.  Because they are very concerned with what has begun to be terminated. They do not like people who do not speak clearly and without any rational consideration because they are using the ratio of its reasoning than feelings.

How to Communicate with AB Blood Type Person

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Their character is easily changed based on their mood condition. You can get the blood AB type person’s heart when we communicate with them to deliver our message and they can nicely accept. Here are the styles to communicate with them:

First, follow their flow of the conversation.

Then, speak firmly because they are easy to change.

Talk about art and metaphysics to start a conversation longer if it’s desired.

If you make an appointment, make sure they understand and agree.

Do not take unilateral decisions because they like to make the unilaterally decision. Discussed with synergistic.

Say simple and short and don’t give them promises because they hardly remembering something, moreover perform more duties.

This blood type person is a bit unlucky in Japan because it is considered the most weak and untrustworthy. However, it’s certainly very casuistry and geographically. It’s just by understanding the characteristic of AB blood type person, many things to do to not reap disappointment later in the future if it turns out to be true character. And for AB blood type person, can certainly introspect the negative things which accordance with the above explanation.

How to Communicate with O Blood Type Person

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These are following guidelines that can be used when we communicate with vigorous, confident, frankly, optimistic, sometimes selfish and creative O blood type:

Speak with passion and full vitality. Because they don’t like people who seem weak, fatigue, lethargy and lackluster considered unable to follow their full energy rhythm.

Do not use negative words and pessimistic because they only have optimistic and positive spirit.

When binding an agreement, make sure that they are firmly committed to what has been agreed upon and may be responsible for its completion.

Speak honestly because they are also so. Once the lies are detected, they are not going to trust again on another occasion. Show off cheerful and passion body language.

O blood type most like to communicate with those who excitedly. People who do not have the spirit of a good life is hard being a close friend because they always in line with the spirit of their vitality. They will be able to communicate for hours with people who are fit and be able to follow their very optimistic and motivating rhythm.

3 Signs Someone Hates You

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Always Back to You

One thing that is known to those who know the person’s body language will always try to face while chatting together. Although, the person sitting or standing a few feet away from you. In other words, if the person likes you, then he will keep his position in line with you. But, if you always look at the back of the person when passing though, he is aware of your presence moreover do not greet you, it could be a negative sign.

Not Walking Near You

In the physical proximity of body language is always a good thing. In fact, when you do not know him, but you remain nearby and feel comfortable around him. The opposite is also true. If someone does not like you, he will always keep the physical distance with you even just through it. This can be very clearly when leaving someone’s shortcut and run around a particular object (e.g. a table) to avoid the dean with you.

Avoiding Eye Contact

For example, you are sitting at the table with some people. Someone who does not like you will always try to not see you, so there is no chance to start a conversation. But, you need to understand, usually a shy person, they do not want to show their feelings or those who are anxious as well to do the same.

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The Divorce Impacts on Child

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There are no any couples who are planning to divorce when they get married. But, if indeed it later and the best decision for parents is divorced, then do not forget to continue to love the child. Because the divorce process itself has made a difference for children.

Livestrong.com reviews some of the impacts that affect children’s psychological and emotional.

Losing Control Emotions

Children who know that their parents would divorce usually lose control of his emotions. Usually parents become role models or examples for them. For example, the way in which their parents to resolve the problem. When marriage is fine, criticism or suggestions on ways in which couple is when they disagree. But, the situation deteriorated anger or emotional cries used when they are not controlled. So, it could be bad for children’s emotions later.

Easily Anxious and Sad

Many studies have shown that blood pressure and heart rate increased child when he knows there are adults, especially parents, to quarrel. Long term effects of stress can make them stress.

Rebellious and Deviant Action

Children whose parents are divorced can make themselves as an introvert child, shy away from the association, committing criminalatau premarital intercourse at a young age. When their parents split up, the child will get less attention on other matters.

Impairment of Academic

When emotional, psychological and concentration of troubled children, academics can also be disrupted.

So, always care about your child. And remember, there is no such thing as a former child.

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